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~Lord Avebury


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Do not let the hero in your soul perish,
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Beyond the Invisible
                   

The tale of the world is like a tree.
...
Sturdily rooted in the past, the tale's branches spread out through the days that come. The many stories that make up its substance unfold from bud to leaf to dry memory and back again, event connecting event like the threadwork of a spider's web, so that each creature of the world plays its part, understanding only aspects of the overall narrative, and perceiving, each with its particular talents, only glimpses of the Great Mystery that underlies it all.
~Charles de Lint, Moonheart

 
Wednesday, June 08, 2005

Reality Check



Amazing how some things put life in perspective. I was thinking today about how it sucks getting older--gray eyebrow hairs and the stray, gray eyelash. I was thinking that being 38 makes you willing to sacrifice more paycheck for more health insurance and how saving as much as possible for your 401k is more of an imperative.

I was thinking that getting old sucks.

I feel incredibly stupid for thinking that.

I just read a message about Karma and her unborn child. I now think of how devastated her husband and her family must be. I now think of her child who is going to grow up without a mother. I remember how much that hurts. I think of how her friends, both close and merely acquainted, are in pain. I'm lucky that all I have to worry about is some kid calling me "ma'am" in training class today. I'm lucky that I have time with my children and will see them become adults and, hopefully, will see their children born. I'm lucky, gray eyebrow hairs and all.

Karma was a truly sweet, warm, friendly, fun woman who was good to me when I was feeling especially low. We haven't kept in touch, but when we did correspond, she was always the great person that I met several years ago. The world is less without her.

FAREWELL, KARMA

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