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Sunday, December 18, 2005

In the Navy...



Thursday afternoon, the phone rings. I think that it might be Allen since he usually comes over on Thursdays. It's my day off and he knows it. Sure enough, it's him.

Allen: I'm at the Navy recruiters' office. I'm going to Louisville to take the ASVAB and to get my physical.

Me: Wha..??

Allen: I'll explain more tomorrow. I'll get back sometime in the afternoon.

Me: Okay

Friday afternoon, there's a knock at the door. It's Allen.

Allen: Hey Mom, do you know where my school transcripts and SSN card are?

Me: I gave you your SSN card, so I don't know where it is. What's going on with the Navy?

Allen: I did really good on the ASVAB and I'm going in the Reserves. Now the recruiter is waiting and I have to go.

Me: Okay. Will I see you before Christmas?

Allen: I don't know. I have a lot of stuff I need to do before I go to Dad's (in Illinois). I'll try to come by on Saturday. Love you Mom!

Saturday afternoon, the phone rings again and, again, it's Allen.

Allen: Mom, it looks like I'm going active sooner than I thought. I have to go back to Louisville on Sunday. I'll be back on Monday in time to go to Dad's.

Me: You're going active sooner?

Allen: That's the only way I can get out of this place, Mom. I can't get a decent job and I've got to start taking care of myself. I'll call on Monday.




So, in the space of 4 days, Allen has joined the Navy and is leaving as soon as possible.

11:13 PM
Comments:
Sweetie, I can't tell by this post exactly how you feel but I know you are feeling some pretty strong stuff here. G's older boy joined the Navy last year. The big difference in Canada is they take their sweet time accepting these boys, requiring tests both medical, physical and intellectual, so we did not have to deal with this whirlwind speed. In fact, we had to wait for months.

And with the situation in the States, military service is a lot more--shall we say, active? than the Canadian forces, so we didn't really have to worry about him being shipped. But we did, anyway.

Still, the military has suited Matt like crazy. Allen may find a place there that he hasn't been able to find anywhere else. I hope so.

I will be thinking of you and yours.
 
Thank you, hon! I agree that it may suit Allen more than anything else ever has. As I told you last night, he's been disqualified until the "ANARCHY" tat is gone/covered, so things have slowed somewhat. Now he thinks it'll be mid-January when he goes in. That's still awfully quick, in my book. I mean, I'm used to him not being around for a week or two, since he doesn't live here, but it's going to be sad to have both of the oldest too far away to get to see either of them on even a semi-regular basis.
 
Blimey. Hope it goes well for him.
 
Blimey. It takes em ages to decide on a job/career/direction, let alone act on it, and he has decided, tested and enrolled in 4 days!

Awe.

Callie
 
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