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Saturday, August 21, 2004

Loose Ends



I spoke to my father-in-law, Bill, yesterday. I'd been pretty concerned about him and Donna since they were right in the path of Hurricane Charley. Apparently, even though they are almost at the center of the state, the hurricane was still at Force 3 when it hit (first time a hurricane has hit there since the 1920's). I hadn't been able to get in touch with them for a week, which made me more concerned.

Things Learned Thus Far


  1. Donna is down in Fort Lauderdale with Tammy (Ferg's sister) and is fine.

  2. Bill is back out on the road again already, since he can't afford to let a hurricane cause him to lose a week's pay.

  3. No one has been home to receive the package I sent them with the letter to them and the letter/packet to Ferg. He's promised to send it out as soon as possible, though, and without giving Ferg my address. (He even offered to drop it from some other state somewhere when he was on the road again.)

  4. He says they both understand why I left and that he thinks I did the right thing. He also said they still love me and I'll always be family. I really love those guys.


As I mentioned before, I've been avoiding Ferg's emails, so he snuck one in on me by sending me a PM on BuffyGuide. That would mean he's lurking there. Oh well...I haven't posted there since the 6th and I haven't read anything since I left because my computer time is limited and there's so much new stuff that catching up would be nearly impossible. Anyway, he sent me a PM because he wanted to tell me that he's "willing" to give me my freedom, but we "needed to talk" to "settle" things. He even promised no confrontations. No thank you. I emailed him and told him the bare bones of what I'd written in his letter and told him I'd either initiate divorce procedures when I could afford it or he could. I also asked him to contact me via his parents. (In other words, I wish he'd quit calling my phone and Nikki's phone. Neither of us wish to talk to him. I wonder if there's some way to block the number via Sprint on a cell phone.)

Anyway, he registered as ACU2769. He probably won't post, since his only purpose appears to have been to contact me in a way that I wasn't expecting and less likely to delete. He's been bozo'd and I've blocked him from my email addresses.

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