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Tuesday, July 27, 2004

It's Official



I'm evicted.  I've been out of town and someone threw the letter from the landlord under the end table.  If I hadn't been looking for something else, I never would have found it.  It says that we have 3 days to pay up or clear out (3 business days, barring weekends and holidays).  Since I never got the letter, my 3 days are up tomorrow.  (Is that even legal--especially if we have a lease?)

I haven't a dime to give him and he wants a $1000 to consider letting us stay.  I called to ask him for 2 weeks leeway, since I planned on moving then, anyway.  I left a message, but there hasn't been a response.  I did tell him that Ferg cleaned me out and, in fact, threw me so deeply into overdraft that I didn't get a bit of my paycheck that got Direct Deposited last week.  I wouldn't get a paycheck this week, either, if it wasn't for 3 frantic phone calls to my temp agency to try to get them to stop the DD and mail me the check, but I won't get it until Friday at the soonest.

Meanwhile, even if I say "Okay, I can't win" and try to move out tomorrow (not possible, but let's pretend), there isn't a moving van or truck to be had until after this weekend because all the college students are moving back into the dorms.  (Also, I don't have a bank card in my name because Ferg has my damned card and I don't have any money in the bank and I'm not willing to lose a significant part of my "escape fund" by putting it in there--especially if there's no point because I don't have a card in my name.)  Aside from that, the family that Nikki is supposed to stay with during this school year is on vacation this week, so there's no where for her to go.

So I called him and left a really long message on his answering machine--4 messages worth--that basically said, "Ferg cleaned my account out and threw me into overdraft; I haven't a dime to offer you, let alone $1000.  I understand completely why you're upset and you've been very patient with all of the various problems, but I simply don't have the money.  I never received your phone calls and I only found the letter tonight because I was looking for something else, so this is the first I knew that you'd expect me out by tomorrow.  I hope you're willing to give me 2 weeks, since there isn't a moving van to be found in the area.  As for the money, I'm willing to try to pay you something--lord knows you deserve it, but I can't pay anything right now."

Um, at some point, I also added that I thought we had a lease which meant that he couldn't just summarily dismiss me in 3 days, especially since I didn't receive the letter until the night before.  I added that the refrigerator hasn't worked in a month or so and I've lost a lot of money when the food went bad and he hasn't fixed it.

I wonder if I should stay home tomorrow, in case he tries to toss my stuff onto the lawn...

I wonder if I should call a lawyer...

I wonder if I actually could move out by tomorrow...

Jesus, my stomach is killing me.

9:14 PM
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