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Wednesday, July 28, 2004

His Response to my email




"I understand the position he is in, as well as ours. [snip] I don't know what else to do. I don't get paid until I get paid, and you know we are in a very precarious situation. I'm really at a loss for what to do. I went over my expenses last night and the list below is what I came up with just for bills. I can try and live on very little but the list has to be paid.

Road Runner - 24.95 (cable modem for the computer he doesn't have yet)
Digital Cable- 16.95
DVR- 4.95 (God only knows)
Digital Phone- 39.95
Cable - 35.00
Rent - 600 (For a one-bedroom apartment!  Nothing to do with it being a luxury apartment, of course)
Furniture - 186.20
Trash - 7.00
Storm Water - 2.00
Electric - ???
Gas - ???
Water - ???"

He left off Everquest ($90/6 months); Nascar some-or-other that he gets online ($30/month); whatever he's paying for his various porn sites that he visits ($no idea/month)


Of course!  Now I see why he had to clean out my account, spend $1300 over that (what he borrowed and what he put me into overdraft...oh, wait...I'm another $400 in the hole now, so make that $1700), and can't possibly help me with such inconsequential things like rent and utilities!  It all makes sense to me now!

(I also noticed that he left off his alcohol intake...)

Just a glimpse of what he's done to me:
Took another look at our bank statement.  Even now, looking at it makes me want to throw up.  After he knew we were already overdrawn, he spent another $200!    Ten of the charges were to bars or liquor stores and that's just what was put on the card and not paid for in cash.  $355.45 in liquor and alcohol since July 13th.  $570 in "insufficient funds" charges.  That's $1000 right there.  And he doesn't know what he could possibly do to help???  I think we have the answer to "HOW OBTUSE IS HE??"....



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